PinkDot'13

PinkDot 2013 has come to great ending. i remember a year ago, i was there with two of my gay friends celebrating the freedom to love after breaking up with my ex. The same view but this year, More people. i think that Singaporeans are becoming more accepting towards LGBT ( Lesbian,Gay,Bisexual,Transexual). Which is a good thing i would say. Even though there will be haters hating but you know, Haters gonna hate, Rollers gonna roll. The LGBT community is just like the rollers that roll. We rock and roll. Yes, This year i am back again to HongLimPark with Vanni,Gaya,Chris and keven. Its super sweet to see so many people coming together and celebrating what we all call love. Straight people especially. i am so so so so so happy that i bring along with me, two Straight friends, Vanni and Gaya.Yes, they as straight as a stick. Anyway, its a wonderful day spent at pinkdot'13. I feel proud to be that little light down there in that picture. Every little light means a hope for the LGBT. I see gay couples, lesbian couples holding hands walking around. As part of the community, You will want everyday to be like today. Being able to hold the hands of that someone you love. As prices of stuff goes up in singapore. Love should still be free. Love is everywhere. You can choose, What to love, Who to love. See so many of my Gay friends there at pinkdot today and giving them a hug makes me feel so good. so super good. I mean, like you dont get to hug them like everyday and in public especially. i really cherish every friendship i have with my gay friends. They are so much better to talk to as compared to straight people. One thing that is true is. Gay Rights is equal to Human Rights, so no one is in the position to judge or take away that rights that every gay people have. Who says LGBT community is a second class citizen, just because you're in the community, you are NOT a second class citizen. Everybody should be equal. Someday, hopefully. Gay people dont have to feel ashamed of who they are and what they are. Someday, they are able to hold the hands of that special someone in public without being judged. We are all waiting and hoping for that Someday to come. Because of the Law and the method parents teach their children, they think that being gay is wrong but in the actual fact. Being gay doesn't make you a sinner. Bear that in mind, Just because you're different it doesn't mean you're alone. So anyway, See you Pinkdot again next year, i am gonna bring more people along with me and hopefully one day, my parents will be accepting and not judge or discriminate any LGBT community and come and join me for Pinkdot. No matter what, even if they dont accept me for who i am, i still love them. :) so to end this post off, Let us all celebrate the freedom to love. <3 br="">

Old Habits dies hard.

Today's blog post is about a few stuff that have been in my mind for a few days have yet to let it out. Probably if you're close to me in a way or two, you would have known that i've applied a job a Jamie's Italian, An award winning restaurant that is opening at VivoCity this July but i doubt i am gonna get that job because they want workers who are able to work on the 1st july however, i am having my chalet on the 1st july which means i cant go for work. Getting that job is rather impossible. Next, Pinkdot is coming up real soon, in 2 more days. Support the freedom to love everybody. I know its hard for some but look, "I went to mac today and the person in front of me didnt order a mac spicy meal. How can he not order a mac spicy meal? I was so upset as almost everyone is eatting a mac spicy meal and i was upset at his order although it did not affect me in any way at all.This is how retarded people sound when they are against gay marriages." Copied from somewhere else, After reading this, i find it rather true. So lets just put aside us as Boys,Girls. Lets just name ourselves as Human, We all have the rights to love someone and be loved by someone. Be it the same gender or different. Then again, People who are gay-friendly are the nicest people i ever met. If you support Gay Rights, i'll give you a big hug and thank you for it. Because Gay people are also humans. They deserve what we all call love. HUG YOU ALL LGBT. Last but not least. To that special girl, You're my best friend, my soul mate, my awesome friend. I know family problems are always very hard to handle but be strong. I know you can handle it and get through this hard time. You might not be reading this but i want you to know that i'll be here for you through thick and thin. You're always that special girl. :) Big hugs to you too.

Social Media

I really don’t get why some people just don’t understand what they had done to the Family. Today’s topic for this blogpost will be.. Is Social Media a good or bad thing for the younger generation. Social Media, Be it Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and so on. Is it a good or bad thing? Personally I would say it’s a Yay and a Neh. You people must be wondering why. Why is it a Yay. Reason is simple, You get to communicate with your friends even though you guys aren’t in the same school anymore and so with Social Media, you are able to share what you have been doing and also to catch up with long last friends. And why is it a Neh. As you know, Social Media is for you to do all the benefits as I mention but again there are people who uses Social Media as a source for them to scold or rather vent their anger. A simple example, When I ask someone to do something which is for their own good, they would go online and post how much they hate me and so on. I mean like, hello. What I am doing here is for your own good. Do you really think I really got all the time in the world to do all these shit for you? No. And so why am I doing it just for you? Just because I care for you. Yes. Care. If you would have notice, I am having some Family problem within my Family and Extended Family I give no shit to the Extended Family part because they should not even be involve in this. Let us move away from the topic of the day and focus on one part which I can’t understand and can’t bear with it. Yes, I know I might be too “Over” in terms of doing all these but what I told my Sister is that I’ll take her phone in the morning and return it back to her at night so that she would focus on her Studies. She is taking PSLE this year. We all know how important this exam is. It determine whether you are going to a good school or a bad school. I don’t care whether you are going in NT or NA but what you should be aiming for is to get into a good school and obviously do well for your Exams. Because what you do now will impact you for the rest of your life. And you are taking the exam, not me. Its your future not mine. What I am doing is to help you focus more on your studies. But what my sister post on Facebook is that, why should I take away her phone, will that help in her studies. Part by Part yes. It will still affect your studies. Because you are less dependent on your phone, you will find another source of way to do. Be it watching TV or doing homework. Over time, you will realise that what you’re doing and what grades you are getting is for yourself. Because for the next chapter of your life, nobody is going to tell you and push you. Everybody is focusing on their own stuff. But again, Why would you realise that whatever you are posting on Facebook is affecting our family’s relationship? Do you really want to see this Family fall apart and you’re happy? Because I certainly do not want this shit to happen to me. The Status that you’ve post is really killing our relationship as a family. Shouldn’t you be more mature and accept the fact that you are suppose to do well for your exams and not cause more trouble for the Family? Now that you are starting to lose friends, why wouldn’t you start to “wake up” and start thinking what you’ve been doing is wrong. This is what your brother is thinking, Jolynn. I really hope you will wake up and realise that what we have been doing is for your own good. Because after all the exams result will have a effect on your life.

家家都有难念的经

To start off, I think that without proper ways of teaching is already a mistake. If only my mum took in the advice of mine to cane them and teach them the hard way, this wont happen. I learned stuff the hard way, I know my mistakes and I learn from my mistake. Even if I fail my exams, I still get caning and I would say, those caning made me learn and prove that I can do it. Next, Whatever happened in my family, Lim family. We don’t need other people to come and interfere. If you think that whatever you’re doing is good. Is helping, I can seriously tell you that you really thought wrong. Do you people know the situation? Do you people know why my mum have been crying at night and acting tough infront of us? Do you people know how tiring it is to run a family? Yes, you people are all grown up and know whats wrong and whats correct. You people have pass the Secondary School and Primary School Age but by doing whatever you guys are doing now is really too much. Just because Jowel Lim Complain it to you guys, Do you guys have to come and attack my mum this way? Don’t you people think its too much? Don’t you people feel ashamed of yourself? Interfering with other people’s family problem? Every family have their own problems. Do you know how stupid young kids stuff and we people have to go into this shit just because of whatever they say, we must apologize? When its not our fault. You people don’t have to get involve in this shit so better just back off. Because this is real shit. It involve how people think of my family. If you really want to back her up. Think about it, because its not your family who lose its reputation. Know whats the different between love and over excessive love. What she have been getting outside is because of her mouth. Even though we told her to keep her comments to herself yet she don’t get it deep in her head then she shall learn the hard way. Don’t come and act pity infront of your cousin Jowel Lim. Because it wont work. Once you’re back in our house, you follow our set rules. I don’t give a shit about what you do at the other side, Once you’re back you jolly well behave. The amount of shit you put us through isn’t enough? Why are you being so selfish? Does all these shit really concern you? Back to the overall, Do you people know the overall story before you start accusing my mother? Have you? If not just back off because I don’t need these shit people to come and interfere with my family and obviously hurt my mum. Know your limits, know where you stand. 家家都有难念的经。Seriously, Enough is enough. These night my mum have been worrying so much. Yet you people want to do this to her. You think you people are so tough yeah? Nothing better to do yeah? Let me tell you, You people are nothing compared to my mother. You people got all the time, and the money but my family don’t. Don’t add on to my family’s trouble. You people can have thousand and one reasons to back her up. But I got one question to break you all down. Do you understand the pain of a mother? Question yourself, You people can act all tough out there but the true people getting hurt from all these “insults” is my mother, Look, its my mother not your mother. How do you like it when other people come and attack your mother. Don’t like it yeah? This isn’t your shit so just back off. Enough is enough. I don’t care how many reasons you have, I don’t care how you treat my sister. Go and think about whats right and whatever you’re doing is right. I seriously feel so disappointed. People who are not suppose to be involved is involved. Just back off because we don’t need your “Help” . Instead of helping, you people are creating more trouble and worries for my mum. Know your stand.